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The Vilification of Sex in Nigerian Homes

The Vilification of Sex in Nigerian Homes

As a teenager, how often did you hear the phrase “If you let a boy touch you, you’ll get pregnant”, or “You better not go around impregnating anybody.” As Nigerians, especially those of us bo...

Are vaginal orgasms really a thing?

Are vaginal orgasms really a thing?

This blog is inspired by Emma Achieng’s video commemorating International Women’s Day 2022. The video was sponsored by Findmymethod.org as part of a joint #Breakthestigma campaign with safe2choose....

Dealing with loss of libido?

Dealing with loss of libido?

By Martin Muthare. Low libido is a decrease in sex drive that can interfere with sexual activity. While it can cause tension in a relationship, fostering doubt and guilt in both partners, it can of...

Violence against women: facets and stories about abuse

Violence against women: facets and stories about abuse

By Amos Sanasi. When a person talks about how another person abused them, you probably think it has to do with kicking, punching and battering, right? The mainstream has portrayed abuse as somethin...

LGBTQ+ Cultures in Southern Africa

LGBTQ+ Cultures in Southern Africa

The silencing of LGBTQ+ communities globally is unfortunately commonplace. In Africa, colonial legislation still dictates the nature in which the community is treated, and this has real life and de...