Hi there! My name is Camila, and I’m a single woman in my late twenties. I recently got out of a long and toxic relationship that lasted for seven years. But ever since I moved to another country for my studies, I learned that I could have non-obsessive relationships with strong friendships, which sometimes include great sex.
That’s why I want to share with you two steamy stories about my experiences with sex friends. Maybe you will be willing to have a good sex friend after reading this.
What Sexfriends Means to Me
First things first, let me tell you what a sex friend means to me. A sex friend is someone who understands that I’m not looking for a serious monogamous relationship but likes me more than just a friend. We can share moments as normal friends without any sexual interaction (even in the same group of friends), and at the same time, have intense sexual moments together.
For this type of relationship to work, it’s essential to have an open conversation where all the “rules” are set. Both parties must be okay with having chill sexual encounters that won’t change the friendship and do not have any relationship goals. This type of trust and open-minded talk usually helps enhance good sex, and partners end up knowing each other very well and providing a lot of sexual pleasure. Plus, new “sexual roles,” the use of sex toys, and performances are open for exploration.
My First Erotic Story with a Sexfriend
Now, let me take you back to my university days. I met the friend of an ex-boyfriend who was really friendly, but I felt that he wanted more than just a friendship with me. One day, we were alone in a room, and he suddenly tried to kiss me. I was a bit shocked because it was only a couple of weeks since I broke up with his friend, but at the same time, I was really attracted to him. The first time he tried to kiss me, I moved away, but then I let him come closer, and we started kissing and making out in the closet.
He gave me the best oral sex I had ever had, and we had intense sex for almost an hour. Afterward, we came out of the room one by one and went back to the party with all our other friends. We didn’t speak for the rest of the party, but the next day, he invited me out for a beer.
When we sat at the bar, the vibe was strange. We had great sex the night before, but before that, we never spoke a lot. It was always because of my ex-boyfriend that we saw each other. That day, we decided that our “affair” was going to be a secret, and we would only see each other in non-public places like hotels or our houses. We spent two years like this, and even though I don’t like the idea that much now, he was my lover even when I started a “serious relationship.” He was the guy I called when things with my partner weren’t going well.
Since I moved to another country, we rarely spoke by message, but during the years it lasted, he was the best sexual partner ever. He was the first person who gave me lube, sexual toys, and I even tried anal sex with him for the very first time. We were always looking for new ways to enjoy our sexual encounters. We visited many themed motels and countless jacuzzis.
And it was one of the best “relation non-relation” of my life.
A Sexual Friendship between two mature people
My Erotic Encounter with a Stranger
I never thought a chance encounter with a stranger could lead to something so exciting and steamy. It all started at a rooftop party where I met a guy with dark hair and green eyes. He caught my attention, and I couldn’t resist approaching him. Little did I know that this encounter would change my life forever.
We exchanged Instagram accounts, and he messaged me the next day. However, he informed me that he had a girlfriend and that it was best if we didn’t talk. I found it strange, but I didn’t think much of it. Two months later, fate brought us together again on the street, and this time, he told me he had broken up with his girlfriend. He suggested we hang out and talk, and I agreed.
We met at a bar, and we talked about everything under the sun – from politics to sex. I was upfront with him and told him I wasn’t interested in a relationship but wanted to explore a physical connection with him. He was more than happy to oblige, and we set some ground rules – we could see other people, but we would always end up in each other’s beds.
Our physical connection was explosive from the beginning
We explored each other’s bodies and experimented with different sex toys, tantric breathing, and role-playing. We tried new positions that I never thought were possible, and it was liberating.
Even though our relationship was based purely on sex, we still cared for each other. We had tender kisses, cuddles, and lots of affection. We both agreed that what we had was something special and unique. But, all good things come to an end.
I met someone who I thought could be my forever, and I knew I had to let my sex buddy go. I told him about my new relationship, and we agreed that we wouldn’t see each other again unless my relationship ended.
Eight months later, and two months after my relationship ended, I sent him an emoticon on Instagram, and he responded with the purple devil emoticon, which could only mean one thing – let’s have fun babe.
And so, we are meeting again today. It’s been a while since we’ve seen each other, but I’m excited to explore our connection once more. We’re both free to be with other people, but when we’re together, it’s pure ecstasy.
Conclusion
Our story is a testament to the power of communication and openness in any kind of relationship. It shows that it’s possible to explore one’s sexual preferences without any labels. It’s about two people who come together to have fun and enjoy each other’s company without any judgment. If you’re open to new experiences and willing to communicate your desires, who knows where it could lead you?
Well, that’s the end of my tales about sexfriends. I hope you found them as steamy and enjoyable as I did in real life.
Note: Find more about safe sex on our blog.
Do you have something to share? Contact us on our social media platforms: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube and TikTok, or send us an email to info@findmymethod.org. For more information on contraception, visit findmymethod.org.